5 common mistakes you can make as a sugarbaby

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The beginning of any potential relationship with a sugardaddy is an exciting, but delicate moment. And knowing how to carry those first moments is crucial to the success of a sugar babe. Even if you are already an experienced sugarbaby you should remember these tips, sometimes we believe when we are already immersed in this world and begin to have the first rewards that we already have everything done. Not so and staying tuned is better than screwing up and wasting time.

Here are 5 common mistakes that sugar baby applicants fall into. Study them calmly and avoid them in order to find a lasting and profitable relationship.

1. Deliver before receiving

This is number 1 on this list for a reason: It is a common stumbling block and often a reason why many girls drop out.  Many aspiring sb begin to correspond to a POT and almost immediately … begin to give him what he wants. Hoping to come to terms with that POT, sugarbabe wannabes are at your beck and call. They answer his phone calls and let him talk as much as he wants. They prepare and arrange to meet him whenever he asks to see her. Sometimes they even do something else. This is a big mistake.

Knowing what your dady needs and being able to give it to them is an important skill for an SB / SD relationship.

But it is a skill that should only be used with sugardaddys with whom you have already reached an agreement. A POT is not yet your sugar daddy. You owe him nothing.  He is just one more man you are meeting before you really come to terms. And until you reach a real deal, you shouldn’t be very available. You should politely cut phone conversations without making them too long. Refuse frequent appointments. Your time is not free. Don’t make him think it is.

Ultimately you must find out what he wants and needs and tell him what you need . But do not give it to him until there is an agreement and he has shown that he will abide by it.

2. Put all your attention on a potential Sugardaddy

This is a very common but avoidable mistake, it is very important not to put all your eggs in one basket. Get hold of a wide network of potential sugardaddys, be sure to get in touch and meet with them. Think that a first meeting with a sugardad is like a job interview, it may or may not catch you, it may or may not interest you. You must be persistent until you find a sd who can give you what you need.

No matter how promising a SDmay seem, don’t give up your search and keep several options until you find the right one. Keep your profile active in Sugar Daddy Balkans, try to stand out and get a “good portfolio of clients”

3. Not knowing when to cut with a potential sugardaddy

If you’ve been on several dates with a potential candidate who isn’t giving you what you want, it’s time to break up. It’s important  to know how not to give your POT false hope and to know how to let go 

He might be interested in you, certainly enough to keep getting value from you without giving anything back, but he’s not interested enough to catch you before another sugardaddy does. He is content to continue wasting your valuable time.

The only time you should keep these men around is if they offer you mentoring, social gatherings, or other perks. As a sugar baby, it is sometimes worth knowing a good mentor who will introduce you to people rather than other perks. However, if there is a deal, no matter how much he teaches you, if he breaks it, it is better not to continue.

4. Without defining its terms

The beginning of a sugar dating relationships is a very important time  to define the terms of the agreement . This is something that must be done from the first moment. Don’t make the mistake of thinking that everything will work out on its own or that it will start giving you its terms once the deal is ongoing.

Learning some negotiation techniques to reach an agreement with your POT can be an advantage. 
 Don’t start a relationship even if it gives you other types of advantages if it doesn’t meet your needs, in other words, if it doesn’t give you what you’re looking for, it’s better not to continue.  Take into account all the details of what he or she asks you for, for example, if he or she asks you to travel, ask him or her about the weather, the advantages he or she will offer you, and all the details.

Know your terms and make sure he does too before the deal starts.

5. Do not make offers to the downside

This is the only mistake we wish all sugar babies can avoid. Because it is nonsense. And it is easily avoidable. We have said it before and we will say it again:  an assignment is not a gift  . You are simply receiving compensation for the many services you are providing.

So why should you bid upward?

Don’t be afraid to ask for what you think is a fair deal. Do not think that it is greedy or selfish to ask for what corresponds to you. Most sugars are cunning businessmen. They will give you less than what they know you are worth … if you leave them, do not blame them, it is implicit in the DNA of a good negotiator, nor do you feel insulted because for many their day to day consists of earning the maximum benefit at the minimum cost, that’s the way business is.  When him asks you what you would like, they also evaluate what you think your value is. Be sure to  set your value and be clear about what you want . Always ask for what you want.

Frequently asked questions about sugar baby mistakes on first dates

Why is it important not to give before receiving in a sugar relationship?

Investing your time and energy without an agreement in place can lead to your efforts not being valued. It is essential to have a clear agreement before moving forward with the relationship.

What does it mean to keep multiple options open with POTs?

It means connecting with several candidates before choosing one, to ensure you find the one that best aligns with your expectations. Relying on just one sugar daddy at the start can limit your chances of finding a more beneficial arrangement or a more satisfying relationship.

When should you end a relationship?

If, after chatting and meeting for the first time, there is no clear progress towards an agreement, or if you feel that you are not getting what you need, it is best to end the relationship. Evaluate what you are offering and make sure that the compensation reflects your time, effort and needs.

What are the key terms that need to be defined from the outset?

Expected benefits, frequency of meetings, mutual responsibilities, and any other key aspects of the relationship. Learn to express your needs with confidence and make sure the relationship is mutually beneficial, avoiding giving in more than necessary.